DO YOU LOVE YOU?

DO YOU LOVE YOU?
...If i no love me , na who i go love?

WORDS BY TAYO ADEJUMO

“Love yourself first and everything falls into line.”
Lucille Ball quotes (American radio and motion-picture actress and comedy star, 1911-1989)

To love yourself means to accept yourself as you are and to come to terms with those aspects of yourself that you cannot change. It means to have self-respect, a positive self-image, and unconditional self-acceptance.
To love yourself means to accept yourself as you are and to come to terms with those aspects of yourself that you cannot change. It means to have self-respect, a positive self-image, and unconditional self-acceptance.
Needless to say, it does not mean being arrogant, conceited or thinking that you are better than anyone else. It means having a healthy regard for yourself knowing that you are a worthy human being.

Look in the mirror, what do see, see the best in you, fall in love with who you are and idea of you, there is no one without flaws, love your flaws and love every bit of you, believe it or not no one can love you, if you don't love yourself, bear in mind that there is a difference between love, lust and infatuation, love is deep, love knows no anger, love is pure. You find your relationship failing because ur partner isn't filling that void you have, you feel empty, you crave love and attention thinking that will make you feel better about yourself, am sorry to break this to you but it won't work.

Loving you is thinking positive about you, if you don't Love yourself it's hard for good things to come your way . When you do however your whole world changes.
You cannot sit around and wait for approval from others. Work on accepting yourself. You are the only "you" that you have. It is in your best interests to be the best you can be.When you make a decision to love yourself, you are really saying that you want to come alive. You accept that you are responsible for the outcomes that you experience in your life and would like yourself to shine from living a fulfilling life. First step is stop self criticism, then forgive yourself
“To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.”
Lewis B. Smedes quotes
Even Whitney says it learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.

Read this, print it and read this to yourself every morning

“I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it — I own everything about me: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself. I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears. I own my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes.

Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so doing, I can love me and be friendly with all my parts. I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know — but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and ways to find out more about me.

However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me. If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought, and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded. I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do. I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me.
I own me, and therefore, I can engineer me. I am me, and I am Okay.”

Denis2005 Virginia Satir quotes (American Psychologist and Educator, 1916-1988)

Now that you have read this, please go to the mirror, stay naked what do you see now? Give us feedback